The “Ex-Force” is a term I’ve come up with in my
opinion to represent all the negative “external
forces” in a relationship. Basically it represents all the forces
of any obstacles that might have a negative impact on your love
life.

Here are a few examples:

1)      Your age gap
2)      A competitor (like another guy)
3)      Your height
4)      Your bad looks
5)      Your skin color
6)      Your lover’s childhood trauma’s (Rape, abuse, etc)
7)      Distance
8)      Fear of commitment
9)      Religion
10)     Family

The good news is that attraction can overcome ANY Ex-Force.
Imagine an old-fashioned balance scale. On one side is an Ex-force
exerting on you. On the other side is a woman’s attraction for you.

If her attraction for you is stronger than the Ex-Force,
she’ll date you. Otherwise, she will reject you or break up with you.

Note that you CANNOT change the amount of Ex-Force exerted
on a woman because it is always constant. Whatever your “problem”
is, it is out of your control.

For example…

You can’t grow more hair.

You can’t beat up the “other guy”.

You can’t become younger.

You can’t grow taller.

You can’t change your skin color.

You CAN, however, change the amount of attraction a woman
has for you. At the end of the day, attraction cuts through
EVERYTHING, which means you should ignore whatever you can’t change
and focus on ATTRACTING women instead. If a girl is attracted to
you enough, she won’t care about your looks, your height, or your age,
get it?

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