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		<title>Technique To Act Like A Challenge To Women</title>
		<description><![CDATA[ Here&#8217;s a very simple technique
you can use to act like a challenge to
a woman.
1) Have a nice conversation. (Fluff talk)
2) Flirt with her a tiny bit.
3) Build rapport and deepen the conversation
using my conversation deepeners.
4) Flirt with her again&#8230;.more this time.
5) Go back to deep conversation and
REALLY deepen it this time. Act all
serious.
6) Just [...]


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		<title>How To Become More Comfortable With Asking Women Out</title>
		<description><![CDATA[ Here is an exercise based on the
temptation routine I taught you last
time.
1) Choose an event or place according
to the requirements I gave you last
time. Basically, pick something that
is cool.
       Examples:
       &#8211; Upcoming party
       &#8211; Upcoming concert
 [...]


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<li><a href='http://hotornots.net/blog/once-you-have-a-date-hang-up/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Once You Have a Date, Hang Up!'>Once You Have a Date, Hang Up!</a></li>
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		<title>How To Change A Woman Or Man</title>
		<description><![CDATA[As I always say, you can&#8217;t really
change a person unless they WANT to change.
In many cases, the character of the person
will remain the same. But if you&#8217;re talking
about small changes, then there&#8217;s a chance
that you can help promote change with the
following technique.
       The key is to separate the behavior
from [...]


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</ol>]]></description>
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		<title>What If Women Like To Spread Gossips About You</title>
		<description><![CDATA[       Once in awhile, I&#8217;ll get an email that
goes, &#8220;Marius. There&#8217;s this woman who is
going around spreading rumors about me.
People are starting to believe her and it&#8217;s
hurting my success. Girls don&#8217;t like me anymore
because of her gossips. What should I do?&#8221;
       Okay. I&#8217;m [...]


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</ol>]]></description>
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		<title>How To Get A Shy Woman To Open Up</title>
		<description><![CDATA[ Here is a short list of things you
can do to get a shy or quiet woman to
open up and talk more:
1) Talk about what she likes rather
than what you like.
2) Show respect and always listen to her
with your full attention.
3) Keep things confidential and don&#8217;t
repeat what she says to other people.
Be the person she [...]


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		<title>How To Make More Friends And Become More Popular</title>
		<description><![CDATA[guys that are
best with women are often the guys that are
the most sociable. So here are twenty ways
to be more popular and make more friends.
1) Have a natural curiosity towards people.
2) Smile a lot and be friendly.
3) Talk about what other people want to hear about.
4) Be positive and give people encouragement.
5) Be a good [...]


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		<title>How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend</title>
		<description><![CDATA[ In order for you to change the
kind of relationship you have with a girl,
you must change your attitude towards it
first. What I mean is, you can&#8217;t just try to
&#8220;get&#8221; her as a friend. You must look at
the dynamics of the relationship and change
it before anything can happen.
       So&#8230;the [...]


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		<title>smart dating 7 Inner Game Tips</title>
		<description><![CDATA[developing your inner game as
a Smart Dater.
1) Be Positive
       The first key is to keep a positive
attitude towards life. This may sound like common
sense, but you wouldn&#8217;t believe how many guys I
talk to every week who are just too darn depressed
about life. How can you radiate charm and confidence
if [...]


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		<title>How To Flirt With Women</title>
		<description><![CDATA[ I know how much you guys love flirting
tips. So here are some tips on how to flirt
with women.=)
1) Have a flirty voice tone
       Use a flirty voice tone when you
talk to girls. Prolong your vowels a tiny
bit and slow down on certain words. Make
it clear that you&#8217;re not [...]


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		<title>How To Invite A Woman Home</title>
		<description><![CDATA[       One of the questions that I&#8217;m asked
*all* the time is how a man can invite a woman
home.
       It&#8217;s actually really easy. Here
are four ways to do it.
1) Cook Her Dinner
       One easy way is to offer [...]


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		<title>How To Encourage A Girl To Be Naughtier</title>
		<description><![CDATA[       Many guys would love to a girlfriend
who is a princess in public but a bit naughty
in the bedroom. Unfortunately, the two doesn&#8217;t
always mix. So here are a few ways to help
you bring out your girlfriend&#8217;s naughty side
in the bedroom.
1) It starts with your beliefs.
     [...]


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		<title>Perception V.S. Reality In Dating</title>
		<description><![CDATA[perception is often different than reality&#8230;
       Here is a few practical examples of
what I mean.
1) Sometimes you may think everybody is
watching you when you approach a woman. You
may also think that they will make fun of you
and think bad things about you if you fail.
But in reality, most people [...]


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		<title>Where To Take Women On Dates</title>
		<description><![CDATA[ Here are a few good ideas for a first
date.
1) Bowling
       Bowling is a good example of a &#8220;fun&#8221;
date. You will get to interact with her, and
if you are good at bowling, you can even teach
her a trick or too.
2) Dessert
       Women can [...]


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		<title>Should You Steal A Woman With A Boyfriend</title>
		<description><![CDATA[what should
I do if the girl I like already has a boyfriend?&#8221;
       Honestly, the answer is quite simple:
You have to decide whether you want to steal her
or not.
       But remember that stealing a girlfriend comes
at a &#8220;price&#8221;:
       [...]


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		<title>How To Get More Attention From Women</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Here are eight ways to get more attention from women.
1) Dress Well
       As a man, if you dress well, you *will* turn heads. So whenever
you go out, put on some nice shoes and a pair of nice slacks. Accessorize
yourself with a nice watch (consider it a long term investment) [...]


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		<title>Thoughts on the George Sodini Case</title>
		<description><![CDATA[a quick commentary for all the men and women on my newsletter:
1) I&#8217;ve always thought something like this would happen sooner
or later. (From some of the nutcase emails I have received.) This is
why I often tell my more &#8220;extreme&#8221; readers to seek therapy. I don&#8217;t
mean it as an insult &#8211; some guys really need help.
2) [...]


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</ol>]]></description>
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		<title>How To Be More Decisive Around Women</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Here are a few ways you can become more decisive around
women:
1) Come prepared.
 The first thing you can do is to be more prepared. For
example,if you bring a woman into your environment instead of going
into  her world, you will be able to most of the decisions naturally
since you are in your own environment.
 Let&#8217;s [...]


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</ol>]]></description>
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		<title>dating In Defense of Attraction</title>
		<description><![CDATA[ to treat attraction seriously because it creates
social problems. According to these guys&#8230;
1) Divorce rate is higher in Western countries
because people are allowed to pick the partners
they like.
2) Women and men often cheat in Western cultures.
3) Women are more materialistic in Western cultures
4) Pre-arranged marriages have worked for thousands
of years, and the concept of &#8220;dating&#8221; [...]


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		<title>What Do Players Have That You Lack</title>
		<description><![CDATA[guys who think it is
hard for them to get a girlfriend because
they are not players.
       Here is what I think: Instead of
of envying players because they get more
women than you do, think about how you can
learn from them and borrow some of their good
qualities that you lack&#8230;
   [...]


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		<title>What If Your Parents Have Ruined Your Game</title>
		<description><![CDATA[ One of the most common excuses I hear from my readers
is that they are not good with women because of their childhood
or past. Here are some of the excuses I&#8217;ve heard:
       &#8220;I used to be good but my divorce has devastated me.&#8221;
       [...]


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