How To Be More Decisive Around Women
Here are a few ways you can become more decisive around
women:
1) Come prepared.
The first thing you can do is to be more prepared. For
example,if you bring a woman into your environment instead of going
into her world, you will be able to most of the decisions naturally
since you are in your own environment.
Let’s say you drive to a woman’s town and she takes you to
a good little restaurant she goes to all the time. She knows
all the items on the menu and even makes a suggestion for you.
She orders the wine because she’s been there so many times.
After the meal, she takes you around the neighborhood and stops by
the local convenience store because she needs to pick something up.
Do you think her romantic respect for you will increase from
taking you around?
Now imagine HER coming into YOUR world. Imagine you taking
HER to your favorite restaurant where the head waiter knows you.
Much better, isn’t it?
2) Don’t force yourself to be agreeable
If you find yourself in disagreement with a woman, verbalize
it! Don’t just agree with her because you do not want to piss her off.
Act like a man and state your opinion. Butt heads if necessary. Learn
to say “no” and call her out on her bullsh** if she gives you any.
She will respect you for it.
3) Be flexible
While you don’t want to be too agreeable, you shouldn’t be
too rigid either. Pick your battles wisely. Be flexible when it comes
to the SMALL stuff. If everything has to be your way, you’re not going
to look decisive. You’re going to look like a control freak instead.
4) Be spontaneous
Even if your decisions are well-planned ahead, you want to
come across as spontaneous. You know how good comedians always seem
like they are just naturally funny when they’re doing a show?
Guess what? Everything has been scripted out ahead of time, right
down to the smallest pause.
You want to apply this sample philosophy to your love life.
Prepare ahead of time, but act as if all of your decisions have just
come to you on the spot. The girls are going to think you’re amazingly
smart.
5) Don’t over-complicate things
A lot of indecisive guys make the mistake of over-analyzing
a situation. If you look at how successful people think, they are
usually great at filtering the garbage and focusing on the one or
two variables that are at the core of an issue. If you do the same,
you will see that it will be a lot easier for you to make quick
decisions.
6) Don’t worry about the outcome
When it comes to dating, many men are afraid of making
a move because they don’t want to mess up. Get rid of that mentality
now. Stop worrying about the outcome and just do it. Stop worrying
about the outcome and just live the moment!
7) Improve your leadership ability
Try to improve yourself by forcing yourself to
take on some kind of a leadership position. Go volunteer.
Start a club at university. Heck. Organize your own
paintball squad. The more decisions you have to make on
a daily basis, the easier it will become.
Practice, practice, practice!
How do soldiers know when to shoot and when NOT to shoot
in a combat environment? Through hard training, of course. The
more you put yourself in an environment where you have to make
quick decisions, the easier it will become. So get off your
computer and start talking to girls!
9) Have prior knowledge to draw from
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