Here is what upsets me:

1) When Guys Don’t Use Protection

Here’s how it happens: A guy spends
a few years trying to get a girlfriend without
having luck, somehow stumbles across my newsletter
(I don’t even run ads anymore), and decides to try
my tips. Then within a month or two, he successfully
beds a girl…and because of all the excitement…
he forgets to use a condom!

10 months later, he’s a daddy.

It saddens me every time I hear such a
case because I can’t help but to feel partially
responsible.

Listen: If you want to love, wear a glove!

2) When Guys Get Totally Screwed Over But Still Don’t Leave

Then there’re nice guys who are simply wonderful
human beings, but because of their personality or upbringing
(using a mixture), they keep on getting walked all over
by women.

Every week, they will send me stories and ask for
advice. I’ll give them my two cents, but then they’ll go out
and do the exact opposite.

Why write me if you aren’t going to listen anyway,
right? (It really frustrates me. Talking to these guys is
like talking to a brick wall!)

3) When Guys Have Anger Issues That They Refuse To Acknowledge

But that is not nearly as frustrating as trying
to help guys with DEEP anger issues that they refuse
to acknowledge. I am talking about guys that will turn
ANY newsletter article into a debate on why the government
is out to get you (I am not kidding) or that “all” American
women are bad.

Note to these guys:

If you seriously think all women are cheaters
or that everyone is out to scam you, why not just forget
about dating all together. And if you are going to forget
about dating all together, why do you have to email me
to tell me every week?

Right?

With that said, I *do* have some good experiences with:

1) Guys Who Wake Up

I really feel a sense of pride of happiness when one
of my readers “Wake up” and leave their old baggage behind.
I think it’s probably the reason why I’m still working and
answering emails every day despite all the garbage that I
have to take. (If you have read some of the flame mails
I’ve shared with my newsletter readers, I am sure you
know what I mean.)

2) Guys Who Remember and Write Me Testimonials Years Later

It is nice to hear from old students who had
signed up for my course way back in 2001 or 2002 and are
now happily married. It feels really good to be one of
the only dating coaches on the Internet who help people
get into healthy long term relationships rather than
just becoming another “pick-up artist.”

3) Guys Who Improve Their Lives For The Better

Ultimately, what pleases me the most is
watching my readers take what they’ve learned from
my ebook and applying the same concepts to other
areas of their lives – such as school, work, or
business. I love helping people improve their
lives, and I really feel it is what makes my
work worthwhile.

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